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02/23/14 09:57 AM #88    

 

Thomas Auchterlonie

I tried to log into the paper site and could not pull up the obit.  Could someone sent me a link or copy please.

 

hdqed2@gmail.com

 

Thabks


02/23/14 09:58 AM #89    

Thomas Coffman

Mr. Collins was my first true mentor. For me, he securely tied the knot linking scholarship to life. Athletics was his metaphor but I feel that he taught and coached life. When we met, he would ask me to call him "Dick" but I just could not do it. The power of the connection is indicated by the fact that "Mr. Collins" or "Coach Collins" would always come out. The neurological wiring was just not availabe to say "Dick". My hope is that all young people can have an anchor of that nature. I suspect that his death was really his last great life lesson for us. Thank you Mr. Collins!  


02/23/14 11:21 AM #90    

Arthur Johnson

EagleTribune.com, North Andover, MA

February 23, 2014

Richard J. Collins, 82

 

Andover — Richard J. Collins, 82, of Andover, passed away on Thursday, February 20, at Lawrence General Hospital. He was born in Providence, R.I., on August 16, 1931, and was the son of the late Edward F. and Ruth (Pregeant) Collins. Dick was a graduate of East Providence High School, Phillips Andover Academy and Dartmouth College. He served in the Marines during the Korean Conflict.

For more than a half century, Dick devoted his life to his family, friends, students, and athletes. His sagacious wit, creativity, and love of all things educational, will be sorely missed, but truly never forgotten. He taught history and social studies at Andover High School from 1959 to 1996. He also taught international relations and world history at Phillips Andover Academy during their summer advanced studies institute. Upon his retirement, Dick served five consecutive terms on the Andover School Committee.

During those 37 years as head coach of football and track, he left an indelible legacy for the town of Andover. He guided the football team to numerous championships, including Super Bowl victories in 1974 and 1975. His track teams captured 37 Merrimack Valley titles, and 24 All-State, Class, and New England championships. Collins received many honors during his career, including Andover Teacher of the Year, Eagle Tribune Coach of the Decade, National High School Track Coach of the Year, and was elected to Phillips Andover, Mass., and National Halls of Fame as both athlete and coach. The Andover High School field house was named in his honor. Dick also taught and coached at Merrimack College in the years following his retirement from Andover schools.

A true Andover icon, he was a voice of wisdom. He fought valiantly for those who were less fortunate. He taught and coached with an unsurpassed vigor and high level of sportsmanship. He was a humble man, always deflecting praise to his students, his athletes, or his assistants in coaching. He let them know that they would be successful simply if they refused to quit.

Dick’s faith carried him through many years of illness, demonstrating to all the power of his beliefs and his love for his family.

He is survived by his loving wife of 25 years, Barbara (Beechner) Ziegenbein Collins of Andover; his children, Carolyn Hemingway and her husband, Kent, of Tamworth, N.H., Richard J. Collins Jr. and his wife, Betsy, of Simsbury, Conn., Edward F. Collins III of Lowell, Mass., Valerie Simeone and her husband, David, of Henniker, N.H., and Jacqueline Dufresne of Peabody, Mass. He is also survived by his stepchildren, Susan and her husband, Nick Flint of Rogers, Ark., Laurie and her husband, Kevin Brosnan of Andover, Charles and Paula Ziegenbein of Andover, and Cathy and Robert Kea of Southborough, Mass. Also among his survivors are his 21 grandchildren, whom he loved dearly and teased incessantly, Katelyn, Jeffrey and Christopher Keyes, Hannah and Sam Collins, Daniel, Nic and Joseph Simeone, Michelle Thomas and Stefan Dufresne, Alexandra, Madison, and Sophie Flint, Caroline, Amanda, and Sam Brosnan, Charlie B. and Anneliese Ziegenbein, and Jake, Hayden, and Ella Kea. Dick was predeceased by his first wife, Pauline Beaumont Collins in 1987, and several nieces and nephews.

ARRANGEMENTS: A memorial service will be held on Thursday, February 27, at 11 a.m., at South Church in Andover. Calling hours at Conte Funeral Home, 28 Florence St., Andover, will be held on Wednesday February 26, from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Richard J. Collins Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o Essex County Community Charitable Fund, 175 Andover St., Danvers, MA 01923

For directions, or to offer condolences, please visitwww.contefuneralhomes.com.


02/23/14 01:02 PM #91    

John Clapper

Coach Richard Collins was  one of the great men.  When i look back, he was an individual that helped me learn about life  and gave me direction.   When i returned to Andover for Christmas vacation in December of 1963, the person that i looked up and thanked was Coach Collins.  He will be missed.  John


02/23/14 03:47 PM #92    

 

Michael Barry

Thank You Arte for forwarding the obit. I knew Coach Collins as a teacher, neighbor (Harding Street) across the street from the Merrills, coach and a fellow parishioner of St. Augustines. He had strong values by which he lived, taught and coached. I remember going to Church on  every First Friday of the month (an old time tradition in the Catholic Church) and he was always there. At times I felt him seeing me at church helped toward earning a starting position.

His influence and that of Will Hixon added to my desire to become a Social Studies teacher. Any young man that completed three years playing under his tutelage could handle anything thrown in their direction. 


02/25/14 05:11 AM #93    

 

Kurt Emerson

Being  the least inspired, least motivated and least skillful player ever to trod the sidelines for Andover High School, (For good reason and for the safety of myself and others), I seldom played. Still, I always throught of  "Coach" Collins as Mister Collins, because "Coach" just didn't add up. He was much more than just a "Coach". I would like to say "Thank You" for your example and your guidance. I know somehow you are reading this Mr. Collins and correcting my poor punctuation and lack of historical fact. I would, also, like to dedicate the followwing to you. Again...Thank You.

 

Will do? Can do? Have done?
By Charles A. Mazzarella
Born 1972, from Brigantine, NJ, United States
 


“There are times in our lives when we are weighed down by our own concerns, too engrossed in ourselves to see that Life is not that bad. That beyond our skulls and self-spun webs, are nicer, lighter aspects of life that we have to take the time to notice. But, we are heavy and our minds are filled with the fog of doubt and worry.”


This is the start of a sermon by a priest that I know. He is actually an uncle of mine. He has been a priest for over forty years and told me once that he sometimes recycles his old ‘speeches’, as he knows the content is still relevant and people do not remember material from decades ago. He said if he did not feel he was called to the priesthood, he would have been a pilot and a part time comedian. I told him to stick to his day job. The nourishment of souls is far greater than telling topical humor in a smoky bar

.
While sitting on a bench one day, in a park near his home, Uncle Rasmin was struck by a series of questions he felt compelled to write down. He had addressed these issues before, in his personal life, as part of his theological training, and in more vague terms in addressing parishioners in masses past. But he stated to me, that he never asked these questions in public directly. What follows is a selection of what Father Rasmin Kurtz proposed to the faithful that attended mass just after Christmas about a decade ago.


“Here are three questions you can ask yourself at different times in your life. You can ask them in chronological order, looking towards the future, or they can be asked in a random order. Three simple questions that can elicit amazing answers, if you are willing to search your soul.”


What will I do with my life?
What can I do with my life?
What have I done with my life?


“Someone views their Life, respectively, when they are young, after having lived for a while, and towards the end. The first is filled with hope, undeveloped memories and unattainable dreams. The second question asked by someone who has accomplished a few things, had some schooling, or experienced what it is like to earn a paycheck and pay bills. Finally, question three. It can be asked at a point of transition or when more conscious that Life has an end.”


“When we are about ten, or at the cusp of our teen years, we look to the future with eyes full of hope and a mind that allows for any possibility. ‘What do you want to be when you grow up?’ Were you ever asked this question? If so, maybe you answered: doctor, nurse, cosmonaut, actor, or race car driver. Some children actually grow up to wear the colors of their dreams. Most of us have to try on several costumes before we discover who we are. Some of us never discover our roles in life, or are not given the opportunity. “


“If we are able to dream, untethered by stress, and supported by those who raise us, we question Life, and wonder what we can do. If all is tranquil in our lives, there at times burns within us the fire of optimism. We are unaware that we are able to fail. It is at this time that our dreams are unrealistic and filled with the naivety of youth. Our hopes are unreachable and random and remain unbroken. We are toy sail boats in a small contained pond, propelled by a warm and constant breeze. Everything looks enormous, days move slower, and we still believe in figments of our imagination. What will we do with our lives? We are hope filled creatures wrapped in gossamer dreams.”


“As we leave childhood and shatter the window of fantasy, left behind are most of the lofty dreams we know we will never attain. We are smarter and more worldly. Our lives have taken us down different paths; some well-groomed, others left neglected. We know of death and several sweet or noxious shades of love. Jobs were gained and lost, hearts broken, and perhaps mended again. It may be our destiny to have children, or work a mediocre job, or recover from malady. Still within us rests hopes and untapped abilities. We may be able to improve our position and ponder what we can still do with the years within our reach that appear without end.”


“After decades elapse and our feet begin to tire from our journey, we become reflective. Gone is most of our hope, and time. Perhaps, some great shock in our life lifts the final veil of uncertainty. We realize that life will end, and we look behind at the things we have done. If at this point we are still unsatisfied, we still may be able to act. To heal or help, to fulfill or forget.”


“We are saddened that years have escaped us, loved ones are gone, and our childhoods appear as a dusty painting out of reach of our embrace. ‘What have I done with my life?’ It is natural to be critical of ourselves now. If we can fight through the heavy anchor chain of regret, we may still be able to accomplish one dream close to our withering hearts."


What will I do with my Life?
What can I do with my Life?
What have I done with my Life?


"Though other scenarios can be described, one can see when these questions can be asked, when we are given a second chance. Maybe we start with the last question and work towards accomplishing something large. Traces of gossamer dreams remain perhaps. Slightly drunk with enthusiasm, we start to carve another path in a different, more hopeful direction. We do not know the length of this journey. We must act when we can with the time we are given."
 


02/25/14 08:10 AM #94    

Nancy Hart (O'Brien)

Yes, I remember Mr. Collin clearly. Though I understandably did not play for AHS football team, I had him as a history teacher. His sterling moral qualities  impacted all he did & served as a fine teacher & model for students.

Looking back, we had many fine, fine teachers. I'm not sure I can say the same for present, education has become so politisized.

     Sorry I'm lax keeping up w/ classmates. I'll try to do better next month.   Nancy Hart O'Brien


03/22/14 02:51 PM #95    

 

Jacqueline Atkinson (Atkinson)

Happy Spring!  I know it's out there somewhere, hiding under snow banks and behind snow clouds...waiting for your arrival.


03/23/14 02:11 PM #96    

 

Pamela Richardson

 Spring has sprung- even if it is very gradually emerging.  Spring means new life.  No surprise that Easter is always in the Spring.  And of course the best new life is life in Christ.


03/23/14 08:37 PM #97    

John D. Townsend (Townsend)

Spring in Bridgton Me will be in June the way things are shaping up !3" snow on the first day of spring. Expecting more snow on Tues. The robins have no chance up here.Still love the way of life.

John David


03/24/14 02:06 PM #98    

 

Kurt Emerson

 

 

 

First full day of Spring 2014...Alabama

 


03/24/14 02:49 PM #99    

 

Michael Barry

The slow approaching spring is somewhat of a blessing in disquise. Fast melting snow in the upper Great Lakes region equates to flood problems along our major rivers system. That being said; I'm still anxious for warmer weather. Plan on heading to Kentucky next month for a jump on my golf season this year.

Take care to all.

 

 


03/24/14 07:21 PM #100    

 

Marilyn Joan Miller (DeGregorio)

Spring is in the air (thank God !) and after the awful winter on the East Coast, I bet you can't wait to hear the birds chirping, and feel the warm sun on your faces and run barefoot thru the green, green grass of spring. Say goodbye to the relentless ice and snow and freezing cold. My thoughts were with you all during that horrible winter season.

That's the reason we live here in Orlando, Fl.  The old bones can't take that weather any more. So plant your flowers and grow some veggies, enjoy your "SPRING TIME" my friends

Yay! officially winter is in your rear view  mirror......    '' SPRING HAS RETURNED ''

 

To all my friends be well and stay warm and enjoy life each and every day           :-)    Marilyn and AL DeGregorio


03/25/14 11:33 AM #101    

 

Thomas Auchterlonie

Hay Mike,

 

Send some of that fast moving snow to California!!!!   A little dry here right now!


04/02/14 11:27 AM #102    

 

Janice Colburn (Swenson)

I'd like to thank our generous classmates, whoever they may be, for extending the life of this website. I check it often and enjoy keeping up with classmates!!! So, THANK YOU, THANK YOU,  AND THANK YOU!!!!!


04/03/14 06:32 PM #103    

 

Marilyn Joan Miller (DeGregorio)

THANK YOU FOR KEEPING THE MESSAGE FORUM OPEN, I TOO ENJOY KEEPING UP WITH ALL MY CLASSMATES. I CHECK IT EVERY DAY IT KEEPS ME IN TOUCH WITH MY HOME TOWN ANDOVER

THANK YOU TO THE ONES THAT MADE THIS POSSIBLE.

FROM WARM AND SUNNY FLORIDA ....................MARILYN AND AL....... TEMP. TODAY 82....  :-)


04/03/14 08:16 PM #104    

 

Michael Barry

Concur wholeheartly, thanks to the benefactors of the website.


04/05/14 11:15 AM #105    

Nancy Hart (O'Brien)

Thanks also for sponsor, though I'm an erratic communicator.
How 'bout them Sox? Wasn't that a spectacular show? Boston is pretty special
& Fenway & the Sox have taken a religious tone, rather like the Wailing Wall.
It feels good to stay connected. Nancy Hart O'Brien

05/23/14 03:19 PM #106    

 

Marilyn Joan Miller (DeGregorio)

This a weekend to thank all of you from the class of 1963 who did their military service.

In memory of many, in honor of all. THANK YOU...

I'm proud to be an American, where at least I know I'm FREE. And I won't forget those who died to give that right to me.    -Lee Greenwood

God bless you all,  I'm so proud of you all.....


05/24/14 09:35 AM #107    

 

Pamela Thomas

Words well spoken, Marilyn.

I think sometimes we forget (or, take for granted) how freedom is ours and, Marilyn's words remind us that many people gave the ultimate sacrifice so that we as a nation (and individually) can and will remain free throughout our lifetime and for many future generations ahead.

Thanks to all who have served.

"Miss PJ"

 


05/25/14 06:22 PM #108    

 

Janice Colburn (Swenson)

Very well said!!! We are so fortunate!!!!  :)


05/29/14 04:17 PM #109    

 

Lawrence Paolino

Good Afternoon 

I am also happy that the webstie is still accessible. Thanks for keeping it open. I regret missing the September Reunion but was very pleased to see all the wonderful photos- It looked like you all had a great time 

I hope everyone is doing well


07/04/14 09:22 AM #110    

 

Marilyn Joan Miller (DeGregorio)

Happy 4th  of July to the class of 1963. The class with all the class..... your all the best of the best.

 


07/04/14 11:25 AM #111    

 

Pamela Thomas

And, Ms.Marilyn you are definately one of the best, my dear sweet gal!  Enjoy the 4th and celebrate with joy, love and laughter!  smiley

"Miss PJ"

 


07/08/14 09:52 AM #112    

Gayle Dufton (Nieburger)

In today's Eagle-Tribune is the obituary for Aristotle Vurgaropulos, age 91. Someone more computer literate may be able to upload it.

Hope you are all having a great summer,

Gayle Dufton Nieburger

 

 

 

 


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